The simple answer is you can't. They have intentionally set it up to separate the customer/host from the actual employees of Airbnb who have the authority and ability to help you. Their help page is atrocious, then they send you to a bot who never has the answers you need, then if you call, you get an outsourced overseas call center in India with some well meaning person who has been given a script and has no ability to do anything for you other than say "I'm so sorry for your frustration" and then you'll get a million follow up emails from bots but no one will ever actually solve let alone address your issue. This is by design, it's how Airbnb wants it. They don't want to deal with the multitude of customer service issues, complaints, bugs, and problems their system has created, so they just pass the frustration on to the customer.