As Helen said, it's difficult to discern whether the content of your review violated any policies which warranted removal, as we can no longer view it. I am assuming however that the one review you have is from the same host you wrote this question about.
A few things after reading that review and your post
-Entire house does not literally mean a "whole sperate standing house" it means the unit you are renting is not shared with any other guest or the host. Unless you were sharing common areas with other tenants/renters/owner the space was just for you. If you put this in your review, I can see grounds for the host challenging it, as it would be false.
-As far as the hosts response time. As hosts we all try to respond in a timely manner, however I know there have been times when I am at work and can't view the platform for an hour or two. If there is ever an urgent situation, I advise guest to call me. I am not sure what this hosts prefers but it may be something to note moving forward if you ever face an issue. As for rudeness, I totally understand that being unacceptable.
-The bathtub and dishwasher. In a listing all available amenities are typically identified. Additionally, a lot of hosts will provide pictures of each area of the home which includes the kitchen and bathroom. If these items were listed as amenities or components of the home and not there, then you have grounds for a complaint. If these things were never offered, you have no grounds to knock the host. Unfortunately, you cannot knock a host for things you simply "wish" they had vs what the advertised. Again, if this was listed in your review, it could have been another point for removal.
-Wasp. This would a big one for me, but more so because I am allergic. Did you notify the host immediately of the wasps in the home? As host, most of us hope guest will bring something to our attention so we have the opportunity to correct it vs waiting till the review. If it was on ongoing problem the host failed to address this, it would a valid reason for complaint and concern
- Hosts have a right to uphold their refund policy when a guest elects to cancel. If the guest is cancelling due to major issues with the accommodation, they can try to illicit a refund, however if the host is not agreeing to a refund, it would be ultimately up to Airbnb if they felt the reasons for leaving were justified money being retuned.
-The mention of your dog- Unless the animal is a service dog, you are required to abide by the pet policy in the listing. Based on her review, it sounds like you brought a pet unannounced despite her no pet policy. Since she allowed you to stay with the pet it is not unreasonable to ask for a deposit. A lot of accommodations that allow pets do ask for a pet deposit as there is more likelihood of things being damaged or extra cleaning being required.
At the end of the day, I wouldn't be so concerned about your review being removed and I wouldn't exhaust my energy on trying to get it put back up. Just chalk it up as a bad experience and move on. There are thousands of wonderful properties and hosts on Airbnb and I am sure you will have better experiences moving forward.
