I also find it quite annoying that fellow hosts contact the host of the property and ask for discounts. It would be nice I if Airbnb would send out a message to all hosts addressing this issue. I would not nor have I asked other hosts to lower their price. I understand that most hosts price their property fairly and work hard making the experience a good one.
It is frustrating that fellow hosts ask to me to lower pricing, especially when I have looked up their rental and noticed that they are making more money on their rental per night then I am asking for mine.
How are others responding back to the asking party?