@Robin While I do understand that you have an opinion.....I was replying TO Tamara. She posted a concern, a valid concern, and I offered up an idea (she can word it how she wants) but I was trying to help. I'm still a new host (7months) and appreciate all the people who took the time to help me along the way. So I am paying it forward by hopefully doing the same with my replies.
Heres' a thought, the next time you have one MALE guest booked, invite that MALE GUEST to stay IN YOUR HOME, just 2 feet from your sweet grandchild bedroom and see how you would react when that same MALE guest brings a STRANGER GIRL at 10:00pm he picked up from the beach to have sex with IN your home....reeking of marijauana too I might add....AND yes, this happened to us! Along with another situation that required 14 police officers removing one of those ugly guests breaking rules like smoking and damaging our brand new bed with their baby diaper poop leaking, (using our bath towels to clean it up) and then barricading themselves in our home breaking everything in sight after we kindly asked them to leave, and this was after they broke the rules several days in a row.
This SAME guest physically attacked me and broke 3 of my toes (police arrested him)
So the next time you decide to "offer up your opinion" to another host about how they handle STRANGERS (guests) coming into THEIR HOME where a minor child lives, maybe, take a deep breath, move on and help someone else. SO, Yes, you did offend me a little in case you were wondering.
oh yeah, and for the record, we have had NO further problems with guests breaking our rules....I will do whatever I have to do to protect MY CHILD....seems you would have more compassion about that since you are currently in the process of hosting your own precious grandchildren soon. (yes I read your other comments a few days about "unlisting" your place and chose to ignore what you wrote because it didnt' concern me)
Did I forget to mention that I stay booked to a point that I have given away 5 bookings to other hosts in 2016? And other hosts have also used my idea about asking guests to write back saying they have read/agree to the rules too. If a guest has enough respect to be in someone else's home and follow their simple rules, then my message shouldn't offend anyone. Its that simple. The part about being asked to leave early if violation of rules continue is stated IN MY RULES, not in my greeting message. I was paraphrasing........
I am a Superhost who gives endless amount of Aloha Spirit to my guests who follow all of our rules. They are no longer strangers to me or my family. They are our friends. Which is my goal with every guests. Something I know that Airbnb really appreciates about me,
Aloha & Amen.
p.s. I get alot of accolades from my daughters teachers because they are so impressed with her following the rules at her private school on a daily basis. She has won the "Principal Award" several years in a row too. Seems I am doing a great job as a mom in raising a human being to follow OTHER PEOPLES RULES. Thats good news for future hosts, right? haha
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Aloha, Momi
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