@Pat366 I really feel for your situation. There needs to be a way to stop this disrespectful stuff. I host a private room in my home for one guest only and unless I told them, my neighbors would never know I even host- my guests are quiet and most arrive by air and then take the bus to town, so they don't have cars either. Hosts like the one next to you give Airbnb a bad name and they make me mad as well. So greedy and inconsiderate.
It's nice that you can understand the difference between responsible hosts and the ones that only care about the money, and not tar us all with the same brush, thank you.
I have friends who just sold their vacation home in my town because there is a big party house Airbnb next door to them which has been no end of grief. My friends also did Airbnb rentals, but knew how to vet their guests well, only hosted singles or couples, and had a responsible property manager, so never any problems as far as their guests went.
Then i have a neighbor right across the road who not only is loud herself, but built open-air buildings with straw matts and curtains for walls to Airbnb. She complains about my dog barking a total of about 5 minutes in 24 hours, but I can hear everything her guests say, every phone conversation they have, I can even hear them having sex. At least she only hosts singles or couples, and she lives on site, it's not a big party scene, but still it's annoying.